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Hokkien Marriage (Culture & Custom)

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Marriage Customs in Hokkien

Blind date Blind date in general is a date where people involved have not met each other previously. In Hokkien marriage , the parents will arrange the blind date for their son or daughter in order to find a suitable marriage partner in future. In the tradition of Hokkien, before 2000, the blind date was aimed to recognise deeply about the background of the man and woman. This was because the Hokkien community was very concerned about the desired husband or wife’s name, lineage, personality, character, and behavior. Name is related for the Feng Shui, lineage is related to the well connection of the people, personality, character and behavior were related to how the people deal with their partner in future. These characteristics are important for the parents to know whether he or she is subtable or not as a partner for their son or daughter. Usually the parents of the man started to find the family which has a girl of marriageable age, and arrange the blind...

Self-introduction

Hi everyone, my name is Hwang Shean Loo, people usually call me Loo. I am a 21-years-old student and currently stay in my home town during this "covid-19 period" . My family is a big "Hokkien" family, but now I only stay with my mothers and two sisters. My whole family and my father's side relatives are the believer of a religion due to our ancestral house is a small temple. I am live in my ancestral house which showed in the first picture. The people inside the pictures are a part of my farther side relatives.

Recommendations

In my point of view, the written document that involves the full process and custom of Hokkien marriage is needed for all Hokkien Chinese to refer. The “Federation of Hokkien Associations Malaysia '',the main associations for the Hokkien society, need to have research and development for all the marriage’s custom of Hokkien. They may start to collect the data from different states because the differences between states in customs are smaller compared to the state. Besides, Fujian China is the origin place of the Hokkien culture, therefore, thay may refer to Fujian’s marriage custom when doing the research. For the higher cost of marriage, actually this is not necessary to construct a marriage with high payment which follows all the customs of Hokkien. The parts which will cause higher cost in marriage are the wedding dinner, the angbao for the engagement, the marriage photo and the betrothal gift . The person can reduce the cost with choosing a...